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San Diego Romantic Hotels

Romantic hotels begin with the ambiance. Interior designs put emphasis on luxury and intimacy from the furnishings to the linens. Visitors relax in a comfortable blend of light and airiness during the day, and soft and intimate lighting in the evening. Modern amenities, designer linens, and high-end spa products are typical. Hotels in this category tend to be boutique with 30 to 120 rooms, offering ocean, garden, or city views. Properties typically include water features, cozy seating areas, outdoor fireplaces, and intimate on-site dining spaces. In-room spas and fireplaces, couple’s massages, complimentary breakfasts, concierge services that provide special touches, and accommodations that place a premium on privacy are the standard.

San Diego Romantic Hotels

Romantic hotels in San Diego range from boutique, to grand luxury, to waterfront resort-style hotels. Boutique hotels like Les Artiste in Del Mar with 12 rooms, and 1906 Lodge on Coronado Island offer uniquely designed rooms, gorgeous landscaping, and intimate touches that are perfect for romantic travelers. Private entrances, balconies with views of the ocean, fireplaces, spa tubs, and in-room spa treatments are just a few of the amenities of these smaller hotels. They also offer complimentary perks such as breakfast, parking, beach cruisers, beach gear, and romance packages. For a funkier urban vibe still catering to romantic experiences, Point Loma’s The Pearl Hotel, and North Park’s Lafayette Hotel hit the mark with pools, cute bars, unique entertainment, and quaint rooms.

Larger hotels that cater to romantic travelers have opulent furnishings and details, or an exotic design concept. Pantai Inn, a Balinese-style paradise in La Jolla, was designed for romance. It offers the ultimate in intimate wedding, engagement, elopement, and other romance packages. Mediterranean-style La Valencia Hotel in La Jolla, accommodates lavish weddings with five-star chefs and top wedding vendors. Grand hotels like the U.S. Grant that feature romance packages have property décor like high-end furnishings, exquisite artwork, majestic water fountains, and magnificent gardens. Romantic resort getaways like Paradise Point Resort & Spa on its own private island in Mission Bay cater to couples with luxury room and beachside property amenities.

Best San Diego Neighborhoods for Romantic Hotels

Many of San Diego’s romantic hotels are located in beach neighborhoods. Among the top choices are La Jolla, Del Mar, and Coronado Island. Romantic hotels in these upscale neighborhoods are either on the beach or within walking distance of it. They often offer complimentary beach gear and bikes. These neighborhoods provide boutique shopping opportunities, intimate dining options, upscale galleries, and award-winning theaters.

The Gaslamp District and East Village in Downtown have several grand or boutique hotels that are ideal for a romantic getaway. These hotels range from historic to ultra-modern. The Marina district, Point Loma, and Coronado bayside have luxurious resort hotels with romance packages. Luxury bed & breakfast options in Hillcrest and Mission Hills, or boutique hotels with an urban edge in Point Loma and North Park also do the trick. When it comes to romance, it’s in the air in San Diego, making it easy to find a perfect getaway no matter what the budget or taste.

Pendry Hotel San Diego
The ocean-inspired accommodations reflect a California coastal aesthetic with muted hues of blue. The hotel combines style, convenience, and comfort with a relaxed ambiance.
Palomar San Diego, a Kimpton Hotel
Located at the north end of the Gaslamp Quarter in downtown San Diego, the rooftop bar and lounge overlooks the San Diego Skyline.
The Lodge at Torrey Pines
The lodge sits atop towering bluffs overlooking renowned Torrey Pines Golf Course and the Pacific Ocean. Guests at the 170-room hotel are greeted by Scottish kilted doormen.
Gaslamp Plaza Suites
The 11-story building was the first skyscraper in San Diego when it was first built in 1913. In 1988, the building was transformed into a 64-suite European-style boutique hotel.
Hotel del Coronado - A KSL Luxury Resort
Since it opened in 1888, Hotel del Coronado has been hosting and entertaining Presidents, celebrities, royalty, and other guests.
Estancia La Jolla Hotel & Spa
The eco-friendly hotel has also earned the coveted Greenleaders Gold Level. The 199 guest rooms come in three styles. The Spa has been named one of the top spas in the world.
Hilton La Jolla Torrey Pines
The hotel sits along the edge of the 18th fairway of renowned Torrey Pines Golf Course. One of the most in-demand amenities is the daily guaranteed tee time at Torrey Pines Golf Course.
Hotel Solamar, a Kimpton Hotel
Contemporary design, coastal culture, upscale amenities, green awards, and one-of-a kind ambiance are hallmarks of Hotel Solamar.
La Valencia Hotel La Jolla
From the beginning, it's been a Hollywood hideaway for some of its brightest stars. The signature pink Spanish architecture and original 1940s hand-painted murals was renovated in 2014.
Manchester Grand Hyatt San Diego
A swanky twin tower high-rise hotel overlooking San Diego Bay. The hotel’s prime location in the Marina District will impress tourists, business professionals, and conventioneers alike.
1906 Lodge-Coronado Beach
The perfect place for a romantic getaway, a quiet weekend retreat, or a serious groupthink. Each of the 17 historic rooms and suites is named after some tidbit of Coronado Island history.
Glorietta Bay Inn
Once the mansion of John Spreckels, one of the first developers on Coronado Island. The Inn is the result of a painstaking renovation to bring it back to the grandeur of its glory days.
L'Auberge Del Mar
L’Auberge is located on the site of the original Hotel Del Mar, playground to Hollywood’s elite in the 1930s. Each of the 120 estate-style guest rooms is designed with the comfort of home in mind.
Grande Colonial La Jolla
A La Jolla landmark. Gregory Peck, Dorothy McGuire, Groucho Marks, Jane Wyatt and other La Jolla Playhouse regulars stayed here during their runs.
Pacific Terrace Hotel
The upscale ocean-facing hotel caters to every kind of traveler. Its distinctive Bahamian vibe feels more like you’re in the Caribbean than on the West Coast.
Sophia Hotel
With a rich history dating back to 1915 when it was a San Diego stagecoach company, you’ll find the perfect place to focus on your spiritual, mental, and physical well-being.
The Westgate Hotel
The hotel has been a part of Downtown San Diego since 1970. Created to rival the best hotels in Europe, you’ll want to do a double take to make sure you are still in San Diego.
Keating Hotel
Built in 1890 by the same architects of the Hotel del Coronado and is San Diego’s first luxury boutique hotel. Check out the Gordon Ramsay designed lobby.
The US Grant
A local icon in the historic Gaslamp Quarter since 1910, designed with classic Empire-style furnishings with a modern twist.
Bristol Hotel
Modern luxury with a conscience. One of only seven hotels in San Diego to receive a Green Eco-Leaf rating. They offer half-price parking for hybrid vehicles.
Bahia Resort Hotel
Located on a private peninsula in Mission Bay, the Mediterranean-style décor is complemented by the outdoor tropical garden setting complete with duck ponds, garden gazebo, and garden fountain.
Tower23 Hotel
Just steps from the famous Crystal Pier, beachfront property is a high-end independent hotel that caters to the savvy adult traveler.